Saturday, January 31, 2009

Our future photographer

Caleb has recently taken an interest in photography. I have taught him how to take pictures with our digital camera, and now he is always asking if he can "take a picture." Here are some of the masterpieces he has come up with:

A lovely close-up of our pantry doors

A wonderfully intense color shot of our kitchen walls
(please overlook the greasy handprints I need to wipe off)

An extreme close-up of Mommy and Andrew

A nice still-life shot of our kitchen table

And with a little help from his mom, he was able to take this family picture.

If he keeps up his good work, maybe we'll send him to do an internship with Lindsey!

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Something worth watching...

I came across this YouTube video of a family's trip to Ethiopia to adopt two girls. Isaac and Caleb watched it with me, and we talked about how blessed these two little girls were to be adopted into this family. It is such a touching video-it made me ready to hop on a plane to Ethiopia!

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

How adoption has changed my life

Have you ever had an experience that dramatically changed your life? I'm not talking about something like getting a new job, moving to a new town, etc., but an experience that completely altered your life from the inside-out? Adopting Andrew has changed me in this way. In fact, it has changed our lives in such an overwhelming way that I have found that I have had a hard time putting our experience into words.

I had a similar experience with my first trip to China in 1999. This wasn't my first time traveling internationally, but it was the first time I had been to a country that was radically different from the United States. That trip completely changed the way I viewed the world, made me realize how blessed I was to live in the U.S., and gave me a love for people in other cultures. It changed me in so many ways that I had a hard time putting all this into words when I came home. Whenever someone would ask me, "So, how was your trip?" all I could say was "It was good." That seemed like such an inadequate answer, but how was I supposed to convey all the emotions, changes and events that had happened during my time there? It was too overwhelming of a task to try and put it all into words, so "It was good" was all I could manage to say.

That is how I have felt since we brought Andrew home. Andrew's adoption has changed me in so many ways, and I have had so much on my mind since he has become our son. Whenever I hold him in the middle of the night and look into his sweet little face, there are many thoughts and emotions racing through my head. But because of the overwhelming task of trying to put all this into words, I have once again given very inadequate answers to people's questions. I want to share with everyone all that this little boy has brought into my life, but where do I begin?

Despite the difficulties of this task, I'm going to start trying to write about some of the things that have been on my mind because I want everyone to know the blessings of his adoption. I'm still processing a lot of things, but here are a few quick glimpses into what I have been thinking/feeling over the last month with Andrew. (I hope to write more on each of these ideas at some point.)

-I didn't realize how indifferent I was to racism before Andrew. Before Andrew, I didn't condone racism, and definitely didn't appreciate when people around me made racist jokes or slurs, but I don't think I took the sin of racism seriously enough. Now that I have a child who is African-American, I understand the ugliness of racism. Andrew is this sweet, adorable little baby who I hope and pray will someday grow into a godly, intelligent and respectful young man. When I think about how some people will judge him simply because of his skin color, it breaks my heart. It has, at times, brought me to tears when I hold him and think about this ugly truth.

-Since adopting Andrew, I feel like I have learned to love more deeply. I'm still processing this in my mind, but there's been something that has happened in my heart since his adoption that has made me feel like I have learned to love in a deeper way. Maybe adoption was God's way of teaching me how to love deeper and be a more compassionate person.

-God's Sovereignty should always be trusted! There were many times during the adoption process when I got a little impatient and wondered what God was doing in this area of our lives. I never should have doubted! He brought us a beautiful, baby boy whom He picked out for our family, and there were so many reasons why Dec. 23rd was the perfect day for us to bring Andrew home. I could write an entire post about how we saw God work through the timing of Andrew's adoption. (Maybe I'll do that sometime...)

-My faith has been strengthened through seeing God's provision. Many times I have prayed for God to strengthen my faith because I realize my weak faith is often the root of my sins. We have seen God answer prayers and provide for us in some pretty dramatic ways throughout the last month, and each time my faith has gotten a huge boost. It is so awesome to see God work in ways that only He can!

So...there's a quick glimpse into all that has been swirling through my mind since Andrew has come into our lives. I hope to write more, as I have the time and energy, and share with all of you the great blessings God has bestowed upon us through adoption. I'll definitely try to say more than just, "It was good."

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Lindsey's pictures

As I mentioned last week, our friend Lindsey came over to take pictures of our family. She did an awesome job! Here are just a few of our favorites...

Sunday, January 11, 2009

New Book

The elders in our church just finished up a book on divorce and remarriage in the Bible. They have spent over two years working on it, and I believe it is an exceptional explanation of the permanency of marriage as taught in the Bible. The first half of the book is the doctrinal explanation and the second half is for pastoral application.

If anyone would like a copy I would be glad to get you one free of charge. Just email me and let me know. It can also be previewed and purchased at

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Caleb the entertainer

Yesterday Isaac needed to do a Spanish lesson, so I asked Caleb if he could "entertain" Andrew for me. I laid Andrew down on his Boppy next to Caleb while I got Isaac going on the computer. After Isaac started on his lesson, I glanced over to see how the younger two were doing. This is what I saw:

Does he look "entertained?"

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Settling into "normal" again...

After a few wild weeks, life is finally settling down in our home. We have been so thankful for the two weeks Luke had off work. It was such a sweet time for our family, having all five of us home for that length of time. We got a lot done around the house, did some fun family stuff together, and got adjusted to having a baby in the home again! It had been almost four years since we had a newborn, and it was a little bit of an adjustment. Thankfully, Andrew is remaining a very easy-going little guy which has made the transition so much easier.

Luke goes back to work Friday and Isaac and I started home-schooling again this week, so life is starting to return to "normal" again. Here's some highlights from the last two weeks around our home:

-Introducing our friends and family to Andrew. So many people have prayed for us and journeyed along with us through this process, it was really fun to share this joyous event with them. Andrew had many people excited to welcome him home!

-Getting family pictures taken! A good friend, Lindsey, came over yesterday and did a photo shoot with our family. I haven't seen the pictures yet, but she should have them ready soon. I'll post some on the blog once I get them.

-Watching Andrew grow! He has developed quite the double chin, and his legs are losing the newborn "chicken leg" look. I took him to the doctor last week and he was already up to 8 lb. 6 oz.!

The adoption process has been a life-changing experience in so many ways. Not only has Andrew's life changed dramatically, but ours did as well. It has been an amazing experience overall, and Luke and I are already talking about when, not if, we will adopt again.

(I was going to post some pictures with this post, but Blogger is not cooperating with me. Maybe later, if Blogger is in a better mood, I will post some more pictures from the last week.)